In all these circumstances, just
remember that Allah is still going to be there for you.. you might feel
like whether your circumstances will ever become favorable, and whether Allah
is going to help you out or not. But remember that Allah never burdens a soul
more than it can bear. He always opens a door before closing one. How can He
leave you alone in such a situation when He loves you 70 times more than a
mother.
Some situations demand from us to
have complete faith and belief on Allah that He is not going to let you degrade
in front of anyone. He will keep your respect and honor. He won't let down your
trust and faith in Him. Just remember that Allah knows what is in every heart
and He knows how to cure it. Allah is Al-Zaahir (the one who sees that is
on the outside) and Al-Batin (the one who sees that a human eye is unable to
see) so how would He not know that who is sincere with you and who is stabbing
you in the back with their sugarcoated words.
The only thing you have to do is stop trying so hard for people
who don't even care about what you are going through. If you have to explain
your problems to someone, again and again, this means they never bothered in
the first place; this is just like wasting your energy and words on someone. If
they want to leave let the door open for them. There is no point in crying for
people who can't take a stand for you. Let them go and believe in Allah's
plans. Any decision made by Allah; will never do any harm to you. Trust on the
prayers you have made to Allah He is Al-Sami (All-Hearing) and Al-Mujeeb (the fulfiller
of prayers) He will surely answer your prayers and help you out on the right
time.
You might be thinking what is the
right time? Like you're stuck in a bad situation and you want to come out of it
as soon as possible, then where is the right time? But you know, every problem
and circumstances that we have to go through have something in them to teach
us. The thing is that you must learn the lesson from the situation that it is
trying to teach you. You must learn that you can never depend on people and
never believe on what they say. Because many times people don't admit what they
said and they don't have the courage to take the necessary steps to make it
happen. Actions always speak louder than words! Keep that in mind. People might
say things like they care for you and never want to hurt you but their actions
show you something totally opposite. Believe in the actions!